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Low self-esteem in a relationship can spoil the relationship itself . Low self-esteem can manifest as looking for signs that your partner has lost interest in you or prefers someone else, or is only seeing you because they pity you.

Sometimes low self esteem in relationships makes you defensive and can make you feel like you are being criticised when you are not. Low self-esteem can often present as over-sensitivity.

Some people with very low self-esteem describe themselves as 'unlovable' and even say things like: 'He/She is only with me for sex/money/out of pity/duty/until they meet someone better.'

It could be the case that you were badly treated and psychologically abused by a previous partner who put you down, never said anything nice about you and made you feel worthless.

It's easy to suffer lowered self-esteem when we've been in a relationship like this.

But if we take these 'old feelings' into a new relationship then they can really get in the way of a lasting and satisfying relationship.  

Imagine what it will be like to truly value yourself and be able to feel the reality of your partners love and respect for you because you feel that it is right and reasonable for them to feel positively towards you.